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We do this with teenagers. We come to expect good behavior, and overlook their efforts. When demonstrates good behavior, notice it. Look for it.
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The more you notice, the more you will. You will get more good behavior in the future. Anyone can catch children being bad.
Turn this. Catch them being good. It's not easy. It takes practice.
Statistics show that the average American parent spends seven minutes a week with each of their children. Do better than average. Telling your children that you love them is not.
Show them that you love. Spend ten minutes of quality time with each child every day. No excuses, like I was just too busy today, or I didn't have time.
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We are all too busy. In many families, both parents work. Some parents work two jobs. Your most important job is being a parent.
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It was sad to watch her start her day this way, and it was draining for us to deal with all the drama early in the morning as. Then I read somewhere that some children do not handle transitions.
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You could stop by to say good morning to the birdies before brushing your teeth as a special privilege, but any arguments about that, and you will just have to forego that privilege. Use single word reminders or questions or state facts, instead of ordering or demanding compliance I was amazed the first time I noticed how well this works.
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Similarly, stating facts helps.
Work together to come up with a mutually-agreeable solution problem solving This is what I will be personally focusing on this week.
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