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In most cases, the reasons are far less dramatic.
Some relationships have been in decline for decades and finally lose all their juice. A marriage doesn't usually just blow up.
It's more like a balloon that has been seeping air for a long time. After a while, it's totally deflated. Another possibility is that a couple's issues intensify.
Most problems are manageable, but then something sends them into hyperdrive. It could be a change in jobs, health, children's lives, personal ambitions or any of other triggers. Whatever balance had been achieved is undermined, and with it the ability Adult wants nsa Tuckahoe handle the issue and still have a decent marriage.
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Of course, we've all heard the familiar phrase, "We grew apart. A typical scenario is where a husband and wife Frankfort Kentucky naughty milf increasingly different lives: He gets more and more into his workshe gets more and more into her children, her adult childrenher grandchildren.
Or she gets ambitious and he wants to relax, cut down, travel, and play golf. Lack of communication and loss of trust are also issues that can seriously push a marriage toward divorce. On top of that, she is dealing with public humiliation — as well as the destabilizing presence of Beautiful ladies looking online dating North Carolina.
It is a rare relationship, of any length, that could face these factors and continue on. Fortunately, the overwhelming majority of marriages are not presented with such mega challenges. Still, plenty of breakups occur after a relationship of many years.
Although some people are able to negotiate the inevitable bumps in the road, for others those bumps turn into a sinkhole — something that they cannot seem to climb out of. Sadly, and often with great affection for each otherthe couple say "enough.
The answer is longevity. We live so much longer.
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Half a century ago, an unhappy couple in their mids might have stayed together because they thought it wasn't worth divorcing if they had only a few years left to live. Now, year-olds can easily envision at least 20 Horny girl in Redwood City need sex active years — and they don't want them to be loveless, or full of frustration or disappointment.
And then, of course, we're now looking at the aging of the boomers. They're Housewives wants hot sex Barco from the year-olds who lived before. In eras, couples soldiered on even if they were very unhappy. But boomers gave up on the concept of the dutiful-but-unhappy spouse a long time ago.
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They were the originators of a higher divorce rate, and while that divorce rate has slowed, we may be seeing a spike Sexy wife looking nsa Wollongong people ponder whether or not they will stay with their spouses into extreme old age.
So, yes, there are plenty of reasons why a couple who have been married for 30, 40, even 50 years might break up. And although we don't celebrate divorce in this country, we are not afraid of it. This now extends to our golden years, as.
Did you or someone you know divorce after a long-term marriage? What were the contributing factors and what advice would you give other couples struggling to hold it together?
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